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How We Plan Amazing Weeks as Unschoolers
  • August 17, 2025
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How We Plan Amazing Weeks as Unschoolers

Planning for unschoolers is often misunderstood. When people think of planning, they often picture something rigid. Structured. Top-down. Something that happens to […]

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Unschooling Tips: The 5 Ingredients Behind Our Most Magical Days
  • August 10, 2025
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Unschooling Tips: The 5 Ingredients Behind Our Most Magical Days

If you could peek into my house and see what unschooling looks like for us, this week you might have seen: craft […]

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Rethinking Independent Learning
  • June 25, 2025
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Rethinking Independent Learning

It might surprise you to hear this from me, as an unschooler, but independent learning is not something I’m focusing on with […]

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10 Essential Ingredients for Inspired Learning in Teens
  • February 22, 2025
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10 Essential Ingredients for Inspired Learning in Teens

Maybe it was easy to see your children learning when they were young. You set up a pretty invitation, they happily played […]

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The Real Gifts Your Children Need
  • November 13, 2024
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The Real Gifts Your Children Need

Sometimes I wish there were more hours in the day, more days in the week, more weeks in the year, just so […]

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Cheerleader, Not Coach: Why Your Kid Needs You to Step Back
  • September 15, 2024
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Cheerleader, Not Coach: Why Your Kid Needs You to Step Back

Over the course of a weekend recently, I spent around 30 hours at a dance eisteddfod with my girls. At the end […]

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"But what if my child isn't interested in anything
"But what if my child isn't interested in anything?"

I get asked questions like this all the time, so I thought I'd spend a bit of time answering some of the practical questions that come up when you're actually trying to make unschooling work in real life.

I think this is the biggest one!
If your child doesn't seem interested in anything, don't respond by trying harder to make them find an interest. Maybe that sounds counterproductive lol, but pressure isn't the answer. Instead, focus on creating a rich and interesting life around them, and even get on with pursuing your own interests.

A few things you could try this week:
• Visit the library and pick out new books on interesting topics. There are tons of interesting books out there!
• Pull out materials you haven't used for a while: clay, paints, a microscope, tools, old magazines, whatever you already have.
• Go somewhere you don't normally go. Try a gallery, market, nature reserve, op shop, museum, etc.
• Watch a documentary about something none of you know much about.
• Start something yourself and invite them to join you. Want inspired learners? Then you've got to model it! What do you want to learn about? What hobbies do you have? Do them in front of your kids.
• Share the things you're interested in too. Tell them about something fascinating you read, show them something you found, wonder aloud about things.
• Look at what's happening locally and choose something to attend together.

And then don't immediately ask, "Soooo... did you find an interest?" LOL!

Forget about the goal of finding an interest and focus on living an interesting life. Interests are the products of that.

If this is something you'd like to get better at, I have a free email series called 'The Art of Strewing' all about introducing new ideas, experiences, and possibilities without pressure or taking over your child's learning.

Comment STREWING and I'll send it to you ❤️


How We Plan Amazing Weeks as Unschoolers
Unschooling Tips: The 5 Ingredients Behind Our Most Magical Days
Rethinking Independent Learning
10 Essential Ingredients for Inspired Learning in Teens
The Real Gifts Your Children Need
Cheerleader, Not Coach: Why Your Kid Needs You to Step Back
The Unschooling Effect: Exceptional Teens?

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