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Everyday Parenting: What’s more important than commitment? THIS.
  • May 28, 2018
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Everyday Parenting: What’s more important than commitment? THIS.

We are waiting outside our ballet studio for class to begin and my 4-year-old is clinging to me, her face buried in […]

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What Respectful Parenting Looks Like: A Day in the Life
  • April 13, 2018
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What Respectful Parenting Looks Like: A Day in the Life

If you’ve never experienced anything but mainstream authoritarian parenting, then it’s hard to imagine different. Autonomy? Freedom? Won’t kids just ‘run wild’? […]

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Everyday Parenting: Screen Time
  • June 4, 2017
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Everyday Parenting: Screen Time

This post is part of a series documenting everyday respectful parenting moments. Reading real life parenting examples inspires me. I also find […]

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Everyday Parenting: A Day in the Life of a Respectful Parent
  • May 29, 2017
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Everyday Parenting: A Day in the Life of a Respectful Parent

Sometimes it’s hard to describe what respectful parenting looks like in day to day life. How can it work with multiple autonomous […]

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Everyday Parenting: What Are Your Kids REALLY Fighting About?
  • January 2, 2017
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Everyday Parenting: What Are Your Kids REALLY Fighting About?

This post is part of a series documenting everyday respectful parenting moments. Reading real life parenting examples inspires me. I also find […]

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Everyday Parenting: The Moment of Connection I Almost Missed
  • October 9, 2016
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Everyday Parenting: The Moment of Connection I Almost Missed

This post is part of a series documenting everyday respectful parenting moments. Reading real life parenting examples inspires me. I also find […]

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We've tried our best to raise our kids with freedo
We've tried our best to raise our kids with freedom and responsibility from the very beginning. Real opportunities to make decisions, experience consequences, solve problems, and ask for help.

We have not relied on strict rules, we have not punished them for mistakes, we have tried to respect their rights and freedom in everything.

Instead, we have principles, conversations, flexibility, advice, and even more conversations when we feel really strongly about something (hello social media! 🙃). 

We have definitely not been perfect at this, but we've done our best, and I'm so glad we didn't wait until adulthood to start treating them like people capable of making decisions.

If children spend their whole lives having decisions made for them, why do we expect them to suddenly know how to make good ones at 18? Making decisions is a skill and skills need practice!

Now my oldest is 17 and I'm so grateful we did it this way. I can see the proof. She makes good choices, she asks for advice when she needs it, she shares her excitement and her problems, and she's an all round wonderful person.

I know it's scary when kids get older, and sometimes the instinct is more rules, more control, to try and keep them safe, physically and emotionally! But I'm so glad I trusted them. What would be terrifying is if they hadn't had a lot of practice making decisions by the time they got to 18.

But by now, they're pros. And they know where to ask for help if they need it.


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