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The Real Gifts Your Children Need
  • November 13, 2024
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The Real Gifts Your Children Need

Sometimes I wish there were more hours in the day, more days in the week, more weeks in the year, just so […]

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The Unschooling Effect: Exceptional Teens?
  • August 22, 2024
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The Unschooling Effect: Exceptional Teens?

This afternoon, as my 15-year-old daughter and I were just hanging out at home together, she suddenly squealed and exclaimed, “I’m so […]

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Enough With Self-Care: What We Really Need Are Boundaries
  • May 1, 2024
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Enough With Self-Care: What We Really Need Are Boundaries

I’m not sure about you, but a 30-minute bubble bath is not going to magically fix any of my problems. Maybe this […]

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Curiosity Is One of Your Greatest Parenting Tools
  • July 2, 2023
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Curiosity Is One of Your Greatest Parenting Tools

As parents, we often think we know best. We hear a sibling fight and we think we know exactly who started it, […]

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Teens Are Not Lazy
  • June 28, 2023
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Teens Are Not Lazy

I came across an article recently that started with this line… “Why are teenagers such moody, lazy, selfish nightmares?” Rude, right? Would […]

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I Want Them to Be Thrilled With Their Lives
  • June 26, 2023
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I Want Them to Be Thrilled With Their Lives

“What were my dreams for them? I wanted them to be thrilled with their lives.” – Carleen Sing I read this quote […]

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There are two ways you can use your power: to domi
There are two ways you can use your power: to dominate or to serve.
You can push people down, or you can pull them up.

So much of what is considered normal in raising and educating children relies on the former. On control, force, and fear. Adults are in charge, and children do what they're told. The person with more power gets more say, and that's just the way things are.

But we don't have to replicate the culture around us in our own families. Just because it's 'normal' doesn't mean it's good, or right. We can choose differently.

What does it look like to use our power as adults to care for children? To empower them rather than control them? It means we use our power to make sure their voice is heard, advocate for them, help them access information they can't on their own, open doors that are easier for adults, protect their dignity, and lift them up.

More power doesn't have to mean more control. It can mean a greater capacity to empower and serve others.

#endchildism #consciousparenting #unconditionalparenting #notsowithyou


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